I stole this from Ren's response in The Clash
--I think there are some dynamics when we birth another child that nobody talks about. The fact that you are breastfeeding a younger one,means your biological gears are going to make you separate from the older one to some degree. I found that the baby was always my focus and biologically I FELT more snuggly and close to them.--
Yes! Thank you for saying this, Ren. I've been sniffing something like this in the air, but as you say, no one really says anything about it.
Anyone care to comment along these lines? I know I'm not supposed to be learning anything today, but I'm hungry to absorb all the information I can regarding the transition from one to two. (Dmitri is 3, and new baby due in November.)