the network for radical unschooling families
There's a question about teen drinking in the "Got Teens' group but it seems to be kinda buried and ignored there. I don't wnat my blunt, personal, opinionated answer to be the only response to the OP so I'm bumping the discussion for your attention. If you have teens and have something to say on this topic, please join in. Join the "Got Teens" group first, if you aren't already a member.