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I just came back from a dance class for homeschoolers (ages about 3 to 6) and it was a nightmare. Dd (just turned 3) does not listen to instructions, and absolutely refuses to do anything she does not feel like doing... She doesn't just sit and watch quietly, she jumps up and down on her own, and when I tell her we have to be quiet, she says no, we have to be loud. Lol . We ended up leaving aft...