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Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!

Started this discussion. Last reply by Joyce Fetteroll Nov 17, 2011. 10 Replies

Hello I would like radical opinions on video addiction. I am a recovering alcoholic and what my son is doing by having unlimited online game time has all the characturistics of addiction. He has been…Continue

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Started this discussion. Last reply by Cyndi Zavala Jun 15, 2010. 3 Replies

Hello,my name is Barbara, I am a single parent of an awsome 13 yr old boy!! We have been homeschooling online since October and I'm done!! The system in my opinion does not support children. I really…Continue

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Joyce Fetteroll replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"It doesn't create a physical end result. It does create an emotional end result.   Does dancing create an end result? Singing? Observing cherry blossoms? Attending a play? Watching TV? Visiting with friends?   1) Video games are…"
Nov 17, 2011
Krystal McColl replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"Thank You. Matters because supposedly gaming is a worthless activity that provides no end result (like doing embroidery, wood carving, painting, etc...) and that is why it is considered to be a waste of time. I suppose that parents also feel the…"
Nov 17, 2011
Sandra Dodd replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"-=-Reason I am asking, I am an adult who happens to love playing some online games. I have recently been given the suggestion that I am "addicted" to gaming and that I should get help even.-=-   I guess it depends who said that.…"
Nov 17, 2011
Krystal McColl replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"Does unschooling and video games also apply to adults? What if adults enjoy playing video games to extremes? What is the difference between adults thinking that their kids have an addiction to game playing, and concern for an adult having an…"
Nov 17, 2011
Rynalee replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Would like recommeded books tapes on fear about giving up control and trusting the process! in the group Got Teens?
"I second the recommendation for Parent/Teen Breakthrough. Absolutely brilliant book for parents of teens. Very reassuring, encouraging, practical, respectful (both ways)....   I've also heard people recommend How to Talk so Teens will…"
May 12, 2011
Gabriel replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Help new to unschooling!!! My son won't get off his online games!! in the group Got Teens?
"Hi Barbara. Although I am not a parent of a teen I am a teen myself. It sent me this in a e-mail for some reason but the subject caught my eye. I am 16 now and although I do spend a fair amount of time on my computer it is not anything compared to…"
Mar 17, 2011
JennyStar replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"All I want is some balance for him!! I don't want to take away his passion!!! He has seen and agrees he isnt being balanced and has agreed to look at another way to bring more balance.What I'm going to suggest is to sleep from midnight til…"
Mar 14, 2011
Alex Polikowsky replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"  Did you tell your son 2 weeks ago that  you decided to let him play as long as he wanted from that day on? Or did you just started out saying yes more? I see that you posted in the teens group months ago how it was so hard to get him off…"
Mar 14, 2011
Meredith replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"The the theory was to see if it would burn himself out and he would regulate himself. Did'nt work...   Two weeks isn't nearly enough time to know if he'll "burn himself out" or not - and that's really not the goal.…"
Mar 14, 2011
Joyce Fetteroll replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"*** I am a recovering alcoholic and what my son is doing by having unlimited online game time has all the characturistics of addiction. ***   Not all the characteristics. Passion on the surface very much does resemble the outward behavior of…"
Mar 14, 2011
Tina Tarbutton replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Video game addiction!! The quote for addiction in any area is when your life become unmanagable!
"Draven (my 11y/o son) is an avid gamer.  I support his passion in every way possible.     Part of this is providing for his daily needs.  I bring him food throughout the day, I keep easy-to-make things available for him at night…"
Mar 13, 2011
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Video game addiction!! The quote for addition in any area is when your life become unmanagable!

Hello I would like radical opinions on video addiction. I am a recovering alcoholic and what my son is doing by having unlimited online game time has all the characturistics of addiction. He has been playing unlimited for 2 weeks. We have been unschooling for 8 months,  homeschooling for 2 yrs he's been playing long hrs up til now. Its such a problem to try and get him off to create time for him to do his responsibilites to our family , so I took the advice from a radical unschooler parent and…See More
Mar 13, 2011
Sue Patterson replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Would like recommeded books tapes on fear about giving up control and trusting the process! in the group Got Teens?
"I would recommend the book, Parent Teen Breakthrough, a relationship approach. It's not specifically about trusting the unschooling process, but it will help you a…"
Mar 6, 2011
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Frank Maier replied to Barbara Moore's discussion Would like recommeded books tapes on fear about giving up control and trusting the process! in the group Got Teens?
"My quick and simple response is for you to cruise around on Sandra's site and Joyce's site. http://www.sandradodd.com/unschooling http://joyfullyrejoycing.com/ Both sites are full of general unschooling info and specific writings about…"
Mar 5, 2011
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Would like recommeded books tapes on fear about giving up control and trusting the process!

HelloI tried to email the group earlier.Didn't get much response. I thank Jana Dean for the hug and support! We been deschooling since June my son almost 14. After recently discussing it with another unschooling mom I've decided to try radical  unschooling! The bottem line is I have control issues and this scares me! I am a single mom and I love my son soo much!  I feel like he is addicted to online gaming not getting much sleep, not eating much, and is grouchy with me.He was much more pleasant…See More
Mar 5, 2011

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At 1:32pm on March 5, 2011, Jana Dean said…

Here's a big hug for you!!! You are a good mama wanting peace and happiness for your son.  I have a 13 year son too and this has been an area of contension in our house as well.  What I have found is that it really is my issue.  I am all about being positive and creating an environment that supports an happy home so for me heavy metal and video games just didn't fit my realm.  However..... it does Samuel's.  He connects to it.  I decided to step into it with him.  Next thing I knew we were singing his favorite songs in the car together.We have also had great conversations about his favorite band and what their message is in their music.  When I set my judgement aside I was able to see the beauty in it all.  I found out I kind of liked the music once I let go of my own fears.  It has brought us closer to each other.  Samuel feels supported and trusted now.  Where as before my fear was creating a huge gap in our realtionship.  I know for me by replacing fear with love and support our home is the peaceful happy environment that we all want.  It is our haven.  Much love and support to you and your family!

At 7:23pm on June 14, 2010, anthony james rainbowheart moore said…
hi mom hows it going over there lol!
At 7:21pm on June 14, 2010, anthony james rainbowheart moore said…
hi mom hows it going over there lol!
 
 
 

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