In the trenches...

[Nikiya McDonald]

Our unschooling adventure has just begun and each day brings with it a new opportunity full of hope and excitement or uncertainty and  doubt.  Three weeks ago, when my thirteen year old and I decided to take this turn in her education, I knew I had tried all other options, to make public school work for her and that it wasn't going to change, we had to.  While I have always held faith in alternative education, I didn't see unschool as an option for her, not until we hit the wall in the system.  Now I know that in this environment, she can thrive, find her voice and direct her own life with learning.

I must admit though that I worry.  I see myself more enthusiastic about all the options she has available.  I want for her to be better organized, create a plan to follow and put herself out into the community.  I understand the need to have a deschooling period and reassure myself that we can take our sweet time now for vacation and unschool throughout the summer. 

I need a handbook.  Sage advise from parents that have been here with teens.  Do I just let go of expectations all together?  Let go of my need to see progress?  All that I want is for my daughter (and my other children too) to be well adjusted, balanced and fulfilled.